double_standard past she sighed, the annoyance plain on her face. "what do you mean you can't find the hardware?" he tried carefully, aware of the minefield he'd stumbled into. "well i checked with the pieces of the frame and with the mattress, but it wasn't with either. but i didn't expect it. it should have been with the blankets and pillows in a big ikea bag." "i emptied that ages ago." she was tired, irate. "oh great!" his enthusiasm was a mistake and he knew it as soon as it came out of his mouth. "where? the hardware must be there." "come on, if you really want to find things you shouldn't pack them like that. why should i know what it was for and where to put it? next time do better." 220726 what's it to you? who go blather from