defensive birdmad stance taken 010130 ... unhinged she walked up to me all defensive in the cafeteria...i'm not ignoring you. we just don't see each other anymore. it seems like every time i try to talk to you it has to be so labored. you always seem so aloof, i know you have better things to do than chat with me. she was giving me dirty looks....i'm sure you got her to hate me too. it all seems so simple really. but you're not ignoring me....uuummm...ok. 010407 ... chiidi mechanism 010407 ... TalviFatin No need to get all defensive with me. I wasnt attacking you. 011119 what's it to you? who go blather from