consideration raze "what makes you feel loved, i guess, most?" "i think the more people spend time around me, the more patience they maybe have to give. i'm not necessarily the easiest person to be around. so patience normally makes me feel loved. or just when someone, like, is genuinely interested. if that makes sense. you know, if i'm talking about something which is maybe just an idea in my head or something like that, and the person is giving it their full attention. it's not like they're waiting for me to finish. that makes me feel very loved. but even ... it's just, you know, to be *considered*." "yeah." "i think a lot of what being loved is is just to be considered. to have someone ... when they act on things that may influence you, you pop up in their head before they act. at least that's how i consider my love to other people." "i like cooking for people, but it doesn't necessarily mean i don't not like not getting cooked *for*." "true." "but that makes me feel pretty loved." "it also doesn't mean you wouldn't cook for someone you hate." "i definitely wouldn't cook for someone i hate." "you would!" — overheard_in_conversation while listening to the radio this afternoon 220328 what's it to you? who go blather from