things_aren't_good tender_square "remember when i kept saying that i couldn't be out in the world if things weren't good at home? well, that's what i meant," he said. "what do you mean?" she pressed. "that if i went out in the world, i would find someone else." "i had no idea that's what you saying at all," she said. why hadn't he ever used those specific words about what he feared? why did he make her feel that the only way he could soar was through clinging to her? did she, in fact, lead him to the exact situation he feared, knowing that he would expand his bubble and allow the idea of someone else to penetrate it? 221210 what's it to you? who go blather from