i_don't_really_want_to_argue epitome of incomprehensibility postscript to please_argue_with_me_instead: I regret getting all angsty about the tone thing. Perception of tone is so subjective. After hashing things out with a couple of you in private, I think I was being too accusatory about the whole wording issue - and lacking in self-control, as usual. Mea culpa. 220224 what's it to you? who go blather from