honey_do tender_square when they first moved in together, she left him a post-it the shade of lemonade. he was lying in bed when she tried to hand it to him, on her way to work while he stayed home. "could you do these things for me today?" she asked. the list contained actions like cleaning the bathroom, taking out the garbage, and picking his clothes off the floor. he glared at her. she placed the sticky note against his nightstand and left. he didn't do any of the items on the list while she was away. when she asked about it, he said he didn't like being bossed around, that if she needed help she could just ask. the next time she asked. the next time he didn't help. she couldn't keep asking, because then it would be nagging. and so she stopped asking. 230519 what's it to you? who go blather from