other kyla not_this_type_of_blather 041125 ... aM i DiStUrBeD? o t h e r Which way to go? Which one to choose? this or that or this o n e o.t.h.e.r. or the other? 050219 ... Bespeckled Is this what relationships will entail from now on - having to choose between being the other woman and the foolish wife? 41, you've ruined my innocent belief in true love. If you can do it, anyone can. So I might as well be the mistress; at least I know the score. 080131 what's it to you? who go blather from