comparison tender_square this flawed logic makes equations out of incongruent variables. it leads me to shoddy conclusions: if he moves on at light speed with someone else it means he didn't love me enough. what appropriate grieving period could possibly account for this loss? if he and i respect the routes of individuation in ourselves and one another, our growth cannot be compared. he will have to move outward to find himself, just as i must move inward. 230603 what's it to you? who go blather from