self_involved
no reason i wish i would shut the fuck up.


first my brain, then me. 		031121
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I am so self involved said oldephebe from his wilderness refuge of crocodile weeds 031121
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nomme this morning in my tossing turning bed i told mindself to stop talking about myself so much,...and so here i am talking about myself again. i'm sorry me and everybody else. 031121
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misstree better than being overly involved with anyone else. who else do you know so well? who else have you been with for every step towards fullness? who else do you know the best stories about, know all the nuances of? 031121
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misstree fan#4709 i love you misstree. 050122
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no reason "the only problem is that he's too into himself. they don't like that, and neither do i." 090828
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no reason you're not the only one who needs to be indulged 090828
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no reason narcissism is something i'm learning more and more that i don't think i can live with 090828
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In_Bloom For fuck's sake, sometimes there is little else in order to make it through 090829
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unhinged damned if i am
damned if i'm not


so somedays
some times
some people
i just choose to forget
aren't worth my time
my heart
my love 		090901
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no reason In_Bloom: i'm not sure if that was directed towards me at all, but i just wanted to say i agree with you. but i think if a person is so self-involved (or maybe a better word would be self-absorbed) that they can't see outside themselves, or that it affects their relationships with others, it becomes a problem that some people are able to tolerate more than others. similarly, it can be both (or either) a good or bad thing when someone is super involved in the lives of others. 090901
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hsg an accurate assessment of oneself and devotion of a fair amount of attention to the within & the without would be ideal. But we usually are over / under. I think more harm is done by self_ignorance than overabsorption.

sometimes others can skillfully pull one out
of self_absorbed_psychosis

It can also take skill, perhaps moreso, to effectively guide someone to question themselves...

Know_thyself 		090901
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no reason self_awareness is different than self_involvement 090902
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In_Bloom @no reason: it was directed at no one, really. It was my own selfish reaction in observance that sometimes pain or hurt or dissapoint puts us in a spot where we justify self involvement in order to get through that rough patch. 090903
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... i wonder if you'll ever love me as much as you love yourself 100310
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no reason some people will never be able to step out of themselves enough to care about others 100426
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hsg true_enough

And some will try to care about others without first learning to love themselves. Both are important. 		100426
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no reason maybe i fall for environmental lawyers because they're pretty much the exact opposite of this 110902
what's it to you?
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