worthy moonshine Do something noble instead of notable for once... 010502 ... Lime Rider of a smile? it seems at last i am... 030127 ... tender_square "that's the problem, and i remember talking with other guys about that when i was younger," he said. "i used to think someone had to fall in love with me first before i could buckle down and get sober and eat right and exercise and take care of mental health. like, 'love me first, then i'll be the man you need me to be.' and i wasn't the only guy who thought this. it's backwards. you have to do that stuff in your life first and it makes you worthy of being loved by someone else." "because you're loving yourself first?" she asked. "exactly. all these people talk about wanting love and it makes me want to ask, 'what are you doing to rise to what you think you deserve?' if you want big things, you better have the courage to come at them with all that you are." 230104 what's it to you? who go blather from