making_love Lindsey yummy 020705 ... phil do it do it do it till your satisfied whatever it is go on and do it do it do it till your satisfied 020705 ... silentbob sounds a lot like making fuck. sounds like a cheap excuse of trying to pretty up something that in most situations is just fucking. replace the word Love with Whoopi or Fuck. suggesting that sex is love and that when you have sex you are making it. making love. 020706 ... kerry maybe for some people, making love is a completely different thing than having sex/fucking. but i really wouldn't know, would i 020706 ... hey now! making love IS completely different from just simply having sex. you can have sex with someone without loving them but you cant make love to them. making love involves more than just your bodies. its more about your hearts and souls and how much you LOVE each other. 020706 ... squigglybee i could never ever have sex with someone i didn't love. that's just me though. i know people who go out on the weekends and have sex with random people.... 020706 ... Casey Can you really MAKE love? Or has it always been there. Maybe we should just call it, releasing love. 020706 ... Mizpah not making, but creating love i'd say, when i create love with someone, what i enjoy the most is the -before- and the -after- parts, not so much the during part, it's like creating a piece of art with someone, first you have it in your mind and then you are satisfied with the final result, the middle process is always hard, tired, earthly and somehow stressful, but at the end with a deep breath while your eyes are closed, the result is human beauty at its most highly and purely expression. 020706 ... Kate Did we not discuss this plural days in band, before and after we had objects to focus on? 020707 ... Arwyn Somedays he's forceful, but mostly he's gentle, and full of intent. He'll kiss my neck and slowly, almost like a dance, begin. I feel so safe... so... protected with him above me. He brushes the hair from my face and his lips against mine. In this moment we are one, all that matters is how much he loves me, and how much I love him. If only he and I could stay like this all day. 020707 ... Arwyn Also bobby, Making love is entirely different from fucking someone. Making love is physically expressing every feeling you have for another person in a way that words can't even describe. Maybe it's different for girls than boys. Being female means you have to invite someone into your body. You have to trust them enough to be gentle enough not to hurt you. You have to love them enough to let them in. I could be wrong. But fucking is just screwing someone as hard as you want. You don't have to love them, you don't have to see them the next day, you don't have to do anything. The purpose is just to get off. It's not worrying about whether or not the other person is enjoying what's happening... you can lie to the girl and say she's pretty and she can lie right back saying you're a god in the sack and you have the biggest member she's ever seen. but be careful if you choose to fuck someone... he/she may actually love you. 020707 ... stork daddy now i...in all my infinite wisdom shall tell you the difference tween fucking and making love so that you shall know which is which...see after making love there is a waiting period before you can go fix yourself a sandwhich. 020711 ... silentbob then i guess people shouldnt be so casual into referring to fucking as lovemaking because you can do all of those and call it either one. im just talking about dissecting the phrase "making love" it sounds so wrong and like it shouldnt exist when picked apart the way i do in my head. as if sex is love and when they have sex they are connected and are making the love that exists, as if it only exists when they are "making love" or "fucking." i mean christ, you might as well call Hand Holding Love Making because the love is still there and it exists when you hold hands, but it also exists when youre not holding hands. i like what casey said. releasing the love. its so funny to see animals doing it and then to hear someone say, "Awww they're making LOVE!". because for them it isnt about sex or fucking, or love, its about reproduction. i dont know. maybe you guys just arent picking it apart the same way i am. and i mean i totally get what you guys are saying. but it just sounds too... i dunno. taken at face value. when you're in love the sex is called Making Love. because its different when you're in love. because it means more. Yes, i see. but at the same time... calling it that just sounds gross. 020712 ... drstrangelove in a desert whatever it is, i need it bad so i dont have to think about it all the time and can finally get a productive life into reality. 020712 ... nightcrawler one time i was babysitting. i was watching a movie, sitting on the couch, and this dog came up and started humping my back. now that was just gross. 020712 ... Mahayana in my viewpoint you can make love and it doesn’t even have to entail [sex] that is though what …for the most part… people presume when they take notice of the term "making love" there can be for example + making love to ones mind + making love to ones soul + making love to someone’s eyes + making love with ones words + making love to and with ones hands its sort of paradoxical though that silentbob was the first person in this blathe to actually without uncertainty to associate it with [sex] even though the two blathes before him could have been about something other than sex ... although they probably werent, the point is the association for silentbob was immediately sex- and that seems to be what he had a problem with… the term “making love” being used to describe sex, and although the majority of the world & some writers here at blather prob have this same words association it does not mean that the term "making love" would have that same association for everyone of course everything in this world is self definitive, there shall never be a term where everyone will agree with or deem/feel/experience nor define as identical to someone else’s, this is the attractiveness of life and perspective, which is also why it is important to instill communication into our relationships so that we have an understanding of what things signify for others, between each other, and for ourselves. love can be in cooperation something we [make and sustain], if you do not put much effort into relationships there will not be much love, or if you take your love for granted it tends to fade ... so [having love & making love] is a definite possibility in my book ... it is something you must [create & nurture] in order to uphold & have that element continue on in your life. & this can be done in various dissimilar customs releasing love, to me sounds so passive so ...sit back on the sidelineish... as if love is just something we have, like natural gas rising up from out of the earth- just there and needing to be released ... not because we want to but because we have to, ... love is something we have to work at, its not just there.. i don’t know… "releasing love" when i hear it sounds a lil too mister burns-ish for me like "release the hounds" silly yes but its what comes to mind. hmmmm releasing love ... releasing love for some people i suppose that when you are intimately close in a physical way with someone it can create a deeper sensation of connectiveness with the one you are sharing yourself with, it can be a very remarkable experience to trust someone absolutely with your body, to allow them to explore a side of you that not many often get to be acquainted with ... it doesn’t even have to be sexual, though it can be, either way it is lovely and just another facet of "making love" creating & sustaining love in just [one] of many ways ... to say you are making love when you are doing any one particular activity doesn’t mean that is the ONLY way you can make love ... it can be just one of many ... if you were to say ... i am breathing as you are laying down ... this does not mean this will be the only time you are breathing is when you are laying down it is just at that particular point in your life you are identifying with the process and your connection and awareness to it, it doesn’t mean this is the only time it exists is when you are laying down nor does it mean the only time love exists is when you are making love you can create or add to what already exists, just as you can destroy or subtract from what also already exists there are many reasons why people say animals are making love ... one it sounds less crude and/or more cute than saying they are having sex, or fucking ... two some of us humans find a greater sense of connectivity in making love opposed to just fucking and it would not be too unlike us humans to try to humanize the animal kingdom- and often times we associate on a deeper level with the world around us if we can identify with qualities in others that is similar to our own lives... this is assuming that animals don’t make love, that this is only an activity that humans have the capacity to be in command of and get pleasure from, which I don’t necc. agree with and it is under my contentions that we as humans can not say what [it is] or [isn’t] about for animals, we cant say it isn’t about just sex or fucking cuz we don’t know for sure although there has been studies that show some animals do just partake in sex acts or mating rituals without regards to seasonal timing and/or for reproductive purposes ... and also homosexuality in animals is far more extensive than we heed to realize, and that isnt necc. about reproduction for animals either. making love to ones mind soul eyes words hands is anything but gross, at least for myself 020712 ... Mahayana i personally can not have sex with someone without loving them- and i refuse to ever do so, sure the possibility is there- so technically i "could"- but would i ever- no, for myself i know it would absolutely be all wrong ive been in a situation once- not by choice- where it came as close to having sex with someone i didn’t love as it could and it was the most empty-appalling-degrading occurrence in my whole entire life, i wept the entire time afterwards but during the whole "process" went wholly vacant and deadened, my body was just there but my essence was gone somewhere else ... before this incident i had always felt that i could not just have sex without love- and through this atrocious experience it was only solidified even more so 020713 ... blown cherry in the middle of the street. Buildings and people dissolve and fizzle away into the ether, and the street lights dim to make way for the stars. Your mouth on mine and my arms tight around you, dipping below the waves for a few minutes more. 021024 ... *Freak sometimes I hate you 021025 ... akenbosche jesus should we be doing this? goddamn worldly temptations and the whole time it seemed like I was this close to bliss but it was too thick. 030119 ... IKC 56-80 you_on_top_of_me more than just some forlorn dry_hump you_have_no_idea fighting a 5 month dry spell 030119 ... flipchrist what women does while a guy is screwing her -maxim 030322 ... acidshank im jsut here absorbing all the details of something i havent ever tried or had. i hope that maybe him and i will. or atleats show something. 041122 ... Freak He's never made love before...I really don't think he's ever really been in love... 041123 ... love & hate to a woman, as sweet and sensual and loving as my katie, is something that i will stay with me for ever and will always be remembered and perhaps experienced again... 041124 ... unhinged i honestly don't think i ever have; i can't have sex with people i love. 041124 ... on sale i wnt to thrust mysef inside you just to feel your reaction. 041124 ... grendel (more beast than bird more priest than bea giving up the tide of meaningless_sex and other sport_fucking in search of this... ...has turned me into a goddamned monk (and occasionally a really dumb, gullible shit) Having aspired to be a priest before my first big failure at love sent me off on my misadventures, the irony of where i have ended up is not lost on me 041124 ... Lafiel fucking is just a get in and reach orgasm as fast as humanly possible so that you can get as far away from the guy screwing you as you can. Making love is all about the combined journey to the apex or penicale of love one can reach with the person you share your thoughts, mind, body and soul with. "Screw the rabbit, he's always near..." 060419 what's it to you? who go blather from