longdistancerelationships silentbob it hurts. it HURTS. I love you. I need to see you. you arent HERE! i miss you. Miss you! like conan misses andy richter. like cher misses sonny. like jackie o. missed JFK. like i'm a fuckin kid in the forest. i need to see you again. friday. friday im in love. 000601 ... kt emptiness and the end of everything. Love was there but only the tightiest bond can hold on to that love. 000612 ... silentbob our bond can hold... our bond can withstand anything, i believe. but it hurts so much 000612 ... lotusflower ...are worth it. 000612 ... silentbob absence_makes_the_heart_grow_cold 000913 ... daxle I have been through the falling in love. I have been through the "everything is perfect" phase. I have been through the "we are too far apart, this will never work". I have been through "everything isn't perfect, should we break up?" and now I am at "we have something worth keeping, let's keep trying" I read all your blathers about the wonders of love and finding "the perfect person" and I just kept thinking "wait until reality sets in". Ah the wonders of life! 000913 ... j_blue in my experience medium long distance relationships tend to work very well. it helps to have a cell phone with free long distance and live maybe a convenient 90 minutes away, so the relationship is littered with reunions and longing filled telephone calls. realtime relationships tend to be the real downers 000913 ... silentbob daxle...are you talking to me?? 000914 ... guitar_freak here is my question. I met this guy in first grade. we got married in first grade. We were the best of friends forever. He was my first kiss. my first love, my first best friend, my first date, my first boyfriend. I always thought that I would end up marrying him. So did he. When he moved away in 6th grade my heart broke. We cried together at the news. We cried together when he left. When he was gone the phone bills were so huge his parents put a lockcode on it. He moved away 5 years ago. We still talk on the phone and visit time to time. I will always love this guy. I still would marry him if he ever asked me. Does anyone here belive that you could know the true love of your life your whole life? 001114 ... anonymous i believe that long distance relationships are worth the time and the effort. I will be the first to admit that it gets so god-damn hard at times but if you really love someone and you bellieve that that they love you as well then there should be no sacrifice to great to make for the good of your relationship! 010114 ... deb ::sigh:: sounds a little familiar... in fact, i cried tonight when we had to go (the first time we said goodnight, anyway) because it's so hard- but we're getting married in august- MARRIED. i should be happy- i should be grinning ear to ear laughing because he's so perfect and i'm so lucky to have him and it's not really that long from now to then- and then i realize i can't hold him and watch him fall asleep in my arms- and my eyes cloud up again and the bags beneath them sag and my heart breaks quietly wishing i was there- you are well worth the effort and the aching and the waiting- i'd do it all again if i still get you in the end- 010115 ... moonshine Long distance relationships are expensive. 010115 ... silentbob sarah if The True Love Of YOur LIfe actually exists, of COURSE you could know them your whole life. in fact it might be easier that way... ther are so many girls i would go out with if i only had the fucking gas money. 010115 ... stupidpunkgirl things that should happen but can't because of the distance between 010115 ... Paragraph Teardrops on the keyboard. (I wonder, will they hurt Brad's computer?) sitting here, catching up with your writing is killing me... (don't say 'I told you so babe') I NEED you here this goes beyond mere want. My body craves you like the nicotine I try to rid myself of. I get the shakes. *pouts, desperately trying not to laugh at his own analogy* I hate laughing, it shoots my writing all to hell. I miss you babe. 010312 ... Rayne I was in love. We were in love. It was perfect. Nothing could come between us. It was too good to be true minus the 2 hour drive. Finally someone that made me feel alive. We had faith. Our love was strong. He promised his love was forever. you promised you would never leave me! you promised you would never hurt me. Then why now are you not there? why am I alone? and why can I not stop crying when I think of you? We had it all. You gave it up. A love of a lifetime. True love can concuer anything. you gave up on me. You promised forever, you gave me 6 months. you said because the distance was too much. that you counldn't stand being without me. What about now? you gave up on me. I would do anything to have you back in my life. I miss you. I love you and I always will! You gave up on me and I love you! My long distance relationship has left me alone, in pain, longing, and empty. Yet, to have what we did, I would do it all again in a heartbeat. I love you! 010417 ... lost hell when you are emotionally attached to the person. 010418 ... Dafremen Just what the father of a teenage girl needs. She's just attached enough to keep the local boys away and just detached enough to get over him and move on. Ahhh life is good. Note To Self: Start relocation preparations for when she gets involved locally again. )evil grin( - - 010418 ... lost mine will end soon. My girlfreind is moving closer to me this summer. 010424 ... sweetheart of the song tra bong I once read that absence is to love as wind is to flame. It extinguishes the small and enkindles the great. Flowery, but appropriate, je crois. 010514 ... lost how true. 010514 ... like rain. sometimes even when someone is only a few miles away, their gaze is shifted far away, past the setting sun. sometimes when she looks at me, i can feel the distance, the longing, the uncertainty of it all. it's frightening until you remember that no matter what, you'll be okay. 010515 ... NinNy TinK Too and on Thursday watch the bloody walls instead. Long distance revolts work.... 1. because you know you can'nt see them, 2. because you are forever wondering where they are and what they are doing. 3. because you are hopfully faithful and bloody horney because of it. 4. Phone sex works wonders. 5. Its worth it if you know they are. my heart says with that experience, but he may not still be alive, thats a loss but I will never forget it. just a cherished spark which I await to over come. 010515 ... Aimee are so hard. I miss you all day. I talk only about you. I think about you all day. I dream about you all night. I catch the scent of your cologne in the air and my head turns cause maybe you're gonna surprise me. I hear a voice and I swear it could be you, so I turn my head hard, and it's not you. But love, I won't trade any of it, because when I see you I feel whole again. I feel safe only in your arms, and now what we once thought would be 2 years, is turning into 3. But I won't give up again. I can't now. Cause if I do, I'll never see you again. 010515 ... scheherazade don't. do. it. 010818 ... Qryssi My first boyfriend was a long distancey guy... I never met him... He turned out to be an asshole, and I swore to myself that I would never have another long-distance relationship again. A few months after we broke up, I got another long distancey guy. Broke up with him all too quickly... swore I'd never do it again... Now I'm stuck in this thing that I can't figure out. Is it a relationship, is it not. He refuses to give me the answers, but insists that he cares a great deal for me. And I love him. So I guess that's a relationship, but I swore I'd never do it again. Twice. Sigh. Love is good. Even if you can't touch your love, it's still good. You know what, it's really good. I'm just fucked whenever either of our computers want to be evil :oP My advice: If you can help it, don't take up a long distance relationship. If you can't help it, go for it. Never hold yourself back. Just don't go looking purposely for a guy (or girl) that lives so far away from you that there's a slim chance of meeting... But I swear I'll meet him, yeah... 010925 ... Sonya the sullen feline I always thought that these relationships would withstand the tests of life and time, and now I'm not so sure. For my love for L.A.P. only grows more when I am not talking to him or not reading words written by him. If only he knew how I am feeling right now so that maybe we could hold onto the happiness we both shared. I miss him so much. I love him more than my own being. I would give up everything for him. I don't know if I can stay here any longer. 011014 ... Dis I've never lived in the same city as he, and if we did I honestly don't think we'd last 6 months. Of course, we've only known each other 6 months and it's been hell the entire time. Except for the 10 scant days we've spent together, those have been divine. I'm an impatient person. I get angry that he doesn't call or write as often as I need him to. I get angry that he seems to be doing just fine without me, while I'm sitting here longing for him. He says we just handle things differently, that's all. I say that's a crock, but what can I do? I adore him. I carry him like a ghost on my shoulder wherever I go. I hear him in my ear, whispering to me at the grocery store, "I like edamame." And so I buy edamame, which I eat alone at home, without him. He whispers to me in the clothing store, "I hate turtlenecks." And so I skip over the rack of turtlenecks and browse the jerseys instead. To wear here, in my city, where he will never see them. It's ridiculous, and painful, and awful. It's a joke. I am deluding myself to say that I am anything but single. He and I will never be together, no matter how many times he asks me to move there. I know he doesn't mean it. ...And yet, I'll go on pretending he does. Because I want it to be so. 011014 ... TalviFatin suck. 011107 ... Casey Maybe I should just cut off all ties before I go, I have a few months to prepare still. 011107 ... whoknows i tried it once. it wasnt the distance that ruined the relationship though. it was because the guy i was dating was fucking stupid. 011108 ... squigglybee they're hard and difficult but can work if both people are willing to do their part in the relationship. they aren't for everyone though. it takes mature people to be in a long distance relationship and you need lots of trust. 020705 ... Jeca I hadn't meant to kiss that night Because I knew you'd go; It wasn't fair that you should leave I think I told you so It KILLS each time I check the mail And not see yours there And I think of you when I watch the stars And just about everywhere It's a bitter, spicy pill and sweet To read that kiss again Terrified I hide my own reply In some singsong telegram Unfair you found words I couldn't but whisper Though behind my ears they roared And that I only