imo_it's_a_gender_mix_up re_alisma being of a serious and fairly feminine nature, i don't have much tolerance for the way boys, uh, play. (usually it's boys, but it doesn't have to be) i just don't seem to do it, but i've learned about things that boys are serious about (well, some of them), and am interested in them. but since i don't do both, i become my own animal. and, i'm sorry to have to apologize for myself, but that's the way it is. sorry! 100723 what's it to you? who go blather from