i_hate_my_boyfriend kelli crane I just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me. I'm shaking! I hate him!! He makes me ill my stomach is in knots just had to share that with someone 020125 ... mcdougall you just shared that with the rest of the world. 020125 ... kelli crane i realize that now. But I told the dog and she doesn't seem to really care. I'm going to go throw up again!!!!!!!!!!!! 020125 ... SuicidalAngel I'm sorry to hear that!! I dont really know what else to say! Did you see it coming at all? 020125 ... kelli crane for the past two months he's been extra arrogant and mean. (he is French, so I was used to it a little) But lately, well, you know a woman just senses these things. Lately I can't even stand him, and now I know why. I just found out two hours ago. He doesn't even know I know. She's so young and beautiful too. It's killing me. I'm going to move out tomorrow while he's at work. And I'll replace his screen saver from the picture of the two of us to the picture of the two of them. He'll get the picture. I'll actually be relieved when I'm gone, because the thought of actually having to sleep in the same bed with him tonight makes me sick. 020125 ... SuicidalAngel You're not going to talk to him at all? How did you find out? I'm kinda turning this into a chatroom but whatever! Question for whoever wants to answere: Do you guyz think that unemotional kissing of other people at parties is conidered cheating? 020125 ... kelli crane no not at all. I am the most understanding person about this shit. I know men cheat. It's the deception and the lying and the fact that I had to look the pictures up on "living night.com" It's a site we have here in Miami where they go out and take pictures of everyone at the clubs, it's a pretty cool site. Unless you find your boyfriend all hugged up with this little blonde that he had already promised me he didn't know. He's been treating me like shit lately anyways. I found a bottle of Viagra in his overnight bag that he had just taken to Vegas with "the boys". hello! he's 30. He never told me he was taking it, so it's obviously not for my benifit. And I also found out that she was there. So, I'm on my third Xanax I have finally stopped shaking. And no, I'm not going to tell him a thing. He's the type of guy that reverses everything around, has an excuse for everything and would probably hurt me with his words even further. I just want to get out of his sight. He destests me at this point. I gave him so much, and he played me for a fool. That's what hurts. Sex is sex is sex. But to know that someone else has his heart and mind, kills me. I'm done, and now I know I will be okay. 020125 ... cube Sorry to hear of your boyfriend problem Kelli, but in your case, it's not so surprising. Why does it seem that the most beautiful women attract the worst kind of men? There is a definite trend in there someplace. I've known a few stunningly beautiful women and without exception they subject themselves to awful relationships. It's almost as if they're punishing themselves for being so good looking. Perhaps it's just bad luck. Anyway, that's some strange kind of Karma at work... ³ 020126 ... yummychuckle the boyfriend's of ugly girls probably tend to be a bit less shallow. beautiful women many men, including the stupid ones who ONLY like them for the looks. 020126 ... yummyC christ on a pogostick i shouldnt be blathering right now, I'm making less sense than usual. i meant beautiful women attract* many men. anyways my point was, the odds of getting a shallow asshole are higher with pretty girls. women. whatever. 020126 ... j_blue mine didnt cheat on me maybe i cheated on him i dont think so maybe i shoulda been better somehow though, maybe more honest 020126 ... pralines&cream and of course, it depends on the boy. My boyfriend would never hurt me (even though I'm needlessly paranoid that he will, but that's just my psycho head problems), and I'm definitely not ugly. I have a gorgeous friend who broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years, and he would give her the world. Finding a guy who won't cheat on your and is completely devoted to you depends a lot on your morals and his morals. I think morals are the "it". 020131 ... oasisoncloud10 i can kill him for you... in a matter of fact i would enjoy killing him. It would be fun. 020201 ... she we all ahte him now kelli 020201 ... mia hi lora 030507 ... Helpless Lora Well my BF invited me to prom and hes a senior and im a freshman. Well he had a friend whos boyfriend hit her and so she moved in, well now hes hooking up with her and its 4 days till prom and he hasnt even called me! Well hes gunna owe me a hell of alot of money for the damn dress, jewlery, make up and hair appointments, not to mention the 130$ i gave him for the limo and the ticket for me to go! I hate him! 030507 ... Lora hay mia 030507 ... mr. obvious he's not your boyfriend 030507 ... stork daddy i hate your boyfriend too 030507 what's it to you? who go blather from