how_can_i sirflaccid How can I be bitter, and hateful when the person I love needs me to be there to bring them up when life is bringing them down. 050406 ... Freak be around you and love you without feeling like i am dragging you along in something that you shouldn't be worrying yourself over. I know as a friend you would/will be concerned and care about me and my life. But thats the point. You're not a 'friend' and most likely never will be. 050406 ... dreamer just be your friend, when still want you that way. i can say i am just 'being a friend,' but when i catch myself looking down your shirt, i know i just fooling myself 050407 ... her royal highness the quirk they're soft and billowy and swallow me in comfort. how can i say goodbye to those dear frogs? 050408 ... krimilda how can i not behave like a child when i'm around you? how can i stop feeding this infatuation? 050409 ... palm let go... when I barely learned how to hold on? 050409 ... latchkey how can I put the fact I've failed with ___ behind me? how can I find out why things had to end the way they did, with ___? how can I get over the fact I couldn't reach ___? how can I stop myself from feeling like a failure everytime I hear songs that remind me of ___? how can I accept that there was nothing I could have done to fix things between ___ and I? how can I accept that things between us are broken? how can I get over having to let you go? how_can_I_forget? how can I listen to my brain that tells me things are better this way without having my heart screaming there was more I could have done? how can I? 050410 ... *Amy* how can I kiss someone and feel nothing and only see you and feel like everything has sense in this life. but still you don`t even look at me. 050410 ... whitechocolatewalrus who am i supposed to talk about my friends to when all my friends are friends with each other? i just need some advice and someone to listen and someone new to laugh with for awhile. how can i live like this when all my friends eventually annoy me but i just want to help them all be happy and i really am not making any sense right now at all. 050410 ... no reason talk to us, dear smallrus. the people in the blue coating are your friends. and i know that i personally specialize in things that don't make sense. (i know you probably weren't really asking but i wanted to answer anyway) 050604 ... walrie i am sitting listening to music thinking about nothing thinking about how i can make myself happy thinking about nothing listening to music and i know how i can breathe i know i can breathe i can breathe and i can swallow and i can face the world my family i can face tomorrow i can breathe i know i can i will i can how can i not? 050717 ... nocturnal break up an 8 year relationship? I'm not asking this in a "how can I do that, it's so horrible" kind of way. I'm actually asking for instruction, ideas, suggestions, helpful stories of similar past experience (preferably successful, but I'll take a what-not-to-do tale as well), anything. all I have working for me is that I happen to know he's somewhat insecure about only having been with one person and for so long. I don't know anything really about their relationship, all I know is that I'll never work w/ anyone else as well as I do w/ him, and everyone that's seen us together says he's obviously interested, and those people as well as others who know us separately say we'd be perfect together. HELP! 070215 ... yoink sorry that I'm not offering any useful advice, because I have none to offer. but Hook 'Em 070619 ... the bad fairy Make sure he knows you want him. And wait. Anything else won't work. If you must do something then remain slightly aloof for a time and then turn up at his house unexpectedly when you know he'll be alone. Don't overstay. Give it time to sink in and then do the same again. Whatever you do, don't make yourself the person whose shoulder he cries on about the breakup. You are not there to help him through this difficult time. You are the beginning of a better one. 090317 ... bad fairy I do have a potion but it has certain, um...complications. 090317 what's it to you? who go blather from