fierce_courtesy amy The connection to the Friend is secret and very fragile. The image of that friendship is in how -you- love, the grace and delicacy, the subtle talking together, in full prostration, outside of time. When you're there, remember the fierce courtesy of the one with you. Rumi 000325 ... TalviFatin "10 foot rule" 011108 what's it to you? who go blather from