dont_go tessa You asked me for my response and I gave it to you. I didn't think about it, I didn't try and work out what you wanted me to say or how you felt or what would be best for you. "Don't go. It will be horrible. It will be the worst year of you life. You'll hate it. It's sacrificing too much." But I think you are going to go anyway. And I probably only said all that to try and make you stay. How can I keep my friends close when they keep moving further and further away? I don't want you to go. 040730 what's it to you? who go blather from