devirginize ClairE Fuck deflowering. All of our bodies belong to us alone, and virginity is not something that can be picked up and tucked into a pocket. How can someone else take your virginity? When I had sex for the first time, he didn't take mine. I devirginized myself. We all devirginize our own selves. 020212 ... pushpins are you sure? 020212 ... Mateo I am, Im a virgin each time, And when Im not I dont enjoy it. 020216 ... unhinged someone took my virginity against direct request. although i guess people would argue the point that i took my own virginity for getting into the situation in the first place. the meaning of the word no is pretty direct though isn't it? but it seems like the few times since have been new and horrible experiences of me giving my virginity to people. that might be why i haven't had sex in awhile. 020217 ... phil oh. 020728 ... burden whaaa? Yeah, you kind of "give" your virginity away, but someone else has to take it... you don't just put it in a compost pile or something. Give and take, I guess. Either way, I wish I could have mine back :). 020728 ... daxle the distinction is pretty blurry... most people would agree that the first time a girl is with a guy or vice versa they lose their virginity... but what about oral sex? what about someone of the same sex? if someone else gets you off is it even different from getting yourself off? i think it's a very artificial distinction, of no real use. 020728 ... phil today 020729 ... Zed I noticed while I was young that girls are virgins untill they have sex, while boys are born fully sexed. Ask a group of boys who are obviously virgins whether they have had sex and they will say yes. Or maybe people just had sex too young in my area - 6 year olds just should be virgins. 021113 ... Zed I had a friend actually who when she was a teenager and had been with a boy for a while decided that she still wasn't ready to have sex, but believing he would get bored of her if she didn't do something - she had anal sex with him. Is it just me, or would loosing your anal virginity be something better done after your vaginal? 021113 what's it to you? who go blather from