daffyineedtoknow unhinged please tell me the compatibility of a pisces/libra match. i already have the sense that it's about nil but since i'm in love with her anyways it would be nice to know what the stars have to say about it. 010801 ... Dafremen It's crazy girl. We're inexplicably attracted to each other's personalities. I ALWAYS find Pisces folx charming as hell. They're so damned thorough and helpful and they always harbor some sort of deep rooted sadness(?) that is always there deep in the eyes. Einstein was a Pisces and I adore the man's writing. Here's the thing though, although ANY relationship is POSSIBLE, some are more unlikely than others. According to Professor Seward as taken with Pisces folx are with Libra people and as charmed as Libra people are with Pisces people, we're just not compatible for some very sound reasons. Let's look at one of the reasons that he gives: If you had to describe a Pisces person in ONE WORD, the word I'd pick is "WHY?". Pisces people ALWAYS need to know the "whys" behind everything. They are constantly seeking after these answers and rarely satisfied until every possibility has been thoroughly examined and understood. Libra folx work on Intuition. For this reason we often KNOW what to do without really knowing WHY until after the fact. We're impatient, impulsive and have little or no time OR patience to explain ourselves OR our actions. I'm not sure how many times I've jumped down someone's throat for making me explain myself, but I'm sure you're familiar with the frustration of waiting for folx to act because they have to know WHY they should act. Really the ONLY way that I've seen a Pisces Libra relationship work was when the Pisces person trusted implicitly in the Libran's intuition. Unfortunately , this isn't a very equitable arrangement for the poor Pisces. They STILL gotta know why, and if following through(which Pisces folx are masters of) doesn't provide the answer to WHY the action was done, I'm afraid you end up with a very unhappy Pisces. It's just not in their nature to leave questions unanswered in their mind. My suggestion to you would be to be careful. Pisces folx can have their self-esteem stomped on pretty easily. They are sensitive, generous, trusting people and you just might make it work out, like I said, no relationship is impossible. If you're looking for a TRULY equitable arrangement, find yourself a nice Aries girl.Not too many incompatibilities there...course the jealousy is pretty intense. That's my 2 cents worth. 010802 ... Teenage Jesus Hey Daf, do you have any light to shed ion a Taurus/Cancer marriage (which will celebrate year #4 next week) me-Taurus; she-Cancer. Our boys (3 years and 4 months) are Gemini and Pices respectively. Thanx in advance for whatever you write... 010802 ... unhinged thanks for the warning daf i think it is going to help in the future 010802 ... Dafremen You Jesus are in a relationship which I personally would call ideal, some might disagree. You have just the type of emotional moody person that will understand your occasional temper flareups(I'm assuming you've gotten those under control). Cancer women are also VERY eager to please those whom they love so your Tauran desires I imagine are pretty well fulfilled. Plus yer both INTENSELY sexual, which makes for good lovin'. I would recommend that you continue your study of your Moon girl and learn the nuances of how the crab works. They are sweet tender people who protect themselves from hurt with their hard emotional shell. The trick is to coax them out and keep them out. Watch the weather, yer gunna freak when you notice how often her moods follow the weather. She'll just not feel very happy on cloudy days, be especially attentive on those days. If she's not already into plants, introduce her(but NEVER insist, that irks Cancers to no end)...it's something that should bring her a lot of comfort. Your sensitivity and generosity are in line with the often misunderstood Cancer woman's generosity and emotional nature. I think the two of you should be quite alright as long as you don't pop off with a rage at the same time she flies into an emotional bru-ha-ha, then...I'd hate to be within a square mile of yer house. P.S. My wife as you know is Cancer, my son...Taurus...my other daughter, Cancer. P.P.S. It took us many years to reach an equilibrium in our relationship that we could both live with. It's very difficult, logic and reason don't mean a whole hell of a lot to a Cancer woman that wants her way. Course you should be all too familiar with the feeling, so empathize with her instead of confronting and everything should stay hunkey-dorey for a long time to come. P.P.P.S. Congrats on 4 years! We celebrated 11 years at the end of May.(Some would say a minor miracle, especially after seeing the first 5 years of our marriage.) 010803 ... dafremen By the way folx, please let a Daf know if you or your loved one is born within the first 6 days of your Sun sign. If so you were born in the Cusp of the sign and will exhibit traits from both the sign you fall under and the PREVIOUS sign. I would hate to do this information the disservice of dispensing it improperly. Thank you. P.S. www.gnarf.net/users/dafremen/Zodiac 010803 ... Teenage Jesus Whoa Doctor! I can't even count all the nails you hit right on the head-- you have just given me extremely valuable information that I can put to immidiate good use. I think our marriage is ideal- don't get me wrong, we have had our shouting matches and arguments in the past. (It's odd how "getting your point across" or "winning" or whatever doesn't seem so great when you consider how you must have sounded. As a matter of fact, it's not worth it at all.) Anywho- you are amazing in your insight. She actually grew up in the nursery bizness. (Ironic- I'm the one with the green thumb. I barely have to try- just water and sun and everything flourishes. I think she over-loves the house plants. I then take them to the "plant hospital" outside and most of `em pull through. I think plants appreciate indirect, yet loving vibes.) My b-day BTW is 4/25. That puts me on the cusp, eh? I've got my moon in Scorpio and Virgo rising. Thanx again Daffy! Whenever I feel frustrated by the lack of Cancer logic- I will re-read what you wrote; I will shut-up and listen; I will know that there is not a damn thing in the world wrong with the phrase "yes dear." 010803 ... Teenage Jesus uh- I can't spell n-stuff. 010803 ... Teenage Jesus Jesus (oops, own name in vain again) I can't believe how rude I am. CONGRATULATIONS on your 11 years! If you feel even a little like I do, your wife and your kids are why you are here. From the outside, and to those who don't know, it seems like sacrifice. Hardly! It is the universe's splendid gift to you. What sacrifice? I bet you count your lucky stars every day! My friend Dan always said "ain't life grand." Here here. A good weekend to you and yours sir. 010803 ... satan satan satan hey , TJ, i always wondered if you lose any points for taking your own name in vain? 'cause i know that flowers seem to sprout up around here in Hell whenever i say "dammit" ~~lovely rosebush sprouts from the barren hellscape~~ maybe if i damn the whole place in similar fashion, i can redecorate. d'ya think dad would approve? 010803 ... Teenage Jesus there you are- Man/ you can never find the Lord of the Underworld when you need him. I hear folks in the pit of Hell are complaining that there is not enough water...true? Check out the Dave_Christ story at Teenage_Jesus BTW_ You know dad always Really liked you best. 010803 ... satan satan satan yeah, i've been trying to resolve the water issue, but every time i try to talk moses into letting me borrow that staff of his so i can strike the rocks down here and get some water-slide themepark action going down here, he always freaks out and hides behind the robes of elijah. i always figured dad might have felt that way, but the expectation that came along with that status back then carried too much pressure and i guess i didn't take it well. but in all, i think the fact that i ended up here in this position was ultimately for the best. heh, what did dave do now? 010803 ... Teenage Jesus Moses- Daddy Really was into him. Few folks know, as you and I do, the real deal with regards to Yule Brenner. Let's take this off of Daf's very informative astrology blather page...where to? Teenage Jesus? U_whole? Dave_Christ? Let's mess up Dave's page- nothing's going on there anyway... 010803 ... Dafremen P.S. My son's birthday is ALSO 4/25 T.J. 020402 ... unhinged it didn't work no hope of it ever working she's too self_absorbed 020402 ... Teenage Jesus Wow Daffy; I had know idea you were blessed with a pleasant Taurus boy. How stubborn is he? I think I already know... 020403 ... Dafremen Yep. Nothin a little hand crafted spank on the ass couldn´t overcome though. For now. Do0d - I kinda figured it´d be a long shot. 020403 what's it to you? who go blather from